Angelika Otherwise, this semester I have come a good deal closer to my goal of obtaining the continuing education certificate "Children and the Changing Family" at the University of Berkeley. I took four courses this semester, so I was and am quite busy with work. I particularly enjoyed and benefited from two of the courses. One was about so-called "stepfamilies" and the other about the social services available in California for families with children. The term "stepfamily" might sound somewhat negative to German ears, but it simply means that children from different marriages or relationships live under one roof because their biological parents have divorced or separated. Since, as is well known, every second marriage in the USA ends in divorce, this is a highly relevant topic. The woman who led the course is a family therapist and herself from a "stepfamily." Moreover, she has been married four times and has thus raised her own children and "stepchildren." The course was mainly about learning the normal phases this new family goes through and how to professionally support them to make living together easier. In the USA, there is already a lot of research on this topic, and the course teacher is considered an expert in this regard. What made it so enjoyable was that this woman was not only an excellent teacher but also conveyed the topic with a lot of enthusiasm and conviction. Despite the serious nature of the topic, we laughed a lot, and I retained a lot that I can take with me for my own work. By the way, I think this topic is still far too little considered in Germany, after all, the divorce rates in Germany are not necessarily lower than here.
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